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Columnists 12 April 2012, Thursday 26 0 0 0
ORHAN KEMAL CENGİZ
o.cengiz@todayszaman.com

Diary of women murders

Violence against women in Turkey is a never-ending circle. Almost every single day a woman is killed in any corner of this country. They are killed by their husbands, partners and sometimes by their brothers and fathers. They are killed because they leave their abusive husbands; they are killed to protect the “honor” of the family and for many other things.

We do not have enough shelters for women. The police and judiciary are not sensitive about domestic violence. And we have so many other factors contributing to this vicious circle. In March 2012 this government introduced a new law to protect women against violence. This new law provides more protection to women, at least on paper. The law also increases penalties in relation to breaches of measures protecting women. However, despite this very law entering into force, new murders and physical and psychological attacks have continued without interruption. Bianet has just published a monthly report about violence against women, which documents attacks against women that took place just in March. The full report is almost 10 pages long, and it includes rape, beatings, harassment as well as murders. To give you the test of the bitterness of violence against women, I have picked murders from this report and have listed them below. Here is the murder diary for March:

“March 1

A man named A.G., 31, stabbed his ex-wife Sebahat Gezer, 33, to death in front of his four-year-old daughter in a park in İzmir. After the murder, A.G. surrendered to the police and was arrested.

A man named A.C. shot his wife Feride Canıbol to death after a quarrel in her workplace in İstanbul. A.C. gave himself up to the police. In Ankara, a man named Y.K., 36, killed his wife Tülin K., 31, with a pump-action rifle at her home for filing for divorce against him. Y.K. was arrested. Previously, Tülin had been under police protection, but she hadn’t extended her request for protection after the first one expired.

March 4

In Gaziantep, a man named A.Ç., 27, attempted to rape Neslihan Polatbilek, 29, whom he had promised to find a job. When the woman resisted him, he killed her with a stone. A.Ç. had escaped from the prison in Gaziantep one day before the murder.

March 9

In İstanbul, a man named Ö.M. shot to death Japarzade Diyar Bengitay, 40, the wife of his cousin, at a medical center where she was receiving treatment after a violent incident. It was reported that there was an ongoing divorce suit between the women and her husband, F.B., and she had previously complained to police about her husband’s ill-treatment; F.B. had previously been jailed for 10 years for killing his last wife. Ö.M. was detained and said that F.B. had told him to kill his wife.

March 11

In Ankara, a man named M.Y., 31, gunned his girlfriend Funda Yıldırım, 28, to death. M.Y. reportedly wounded her with a gun and threatened her two years ago.

March 22

In İzmir, a man named T.Y., 50, seriously wounded his daughter T.Y. with a pump-action rifle and killed Ali Ürken, 26, with whom she was living. Also, a man named K.Y., 52, who was watching TV at home, was wounded because of the buckshot. After the incident, T.Y. attempted to commit suicide.

March 23

In Urfa, a man named A.Ü.G., 17, killed Naime Solmaz, 74, with a stick after breaking into her house. He was referred to the court on charges of premeditated murder and assault and was arrested.

March 26

In İstanbul, a man named H.İ.Y. shot to death his wife, Suzan Yıldırım, 29, who was pregnant, in a car. He abandoned his car in Gebze and went into hiding.

March 27

In Ordu, a man V.A., 57, killed his ex-wife Esme Türk, 48, with a pump-action rifle in the marketplace. V.A. was apprehended and taken into custody.

In İstanbul, İ.F. stabbed his wife Demet Filcan, 30, to death at a spot just 150 meters away from the Silivri Courthouse on the day the divorce action between them was to be heard.

March 30

In Manisa, A.B., 26, stabbed his wife Ş.B., 25, to death and then gave himself up to the gendarmerie. In İzmir, a transsexual named Tuğçe Şahin was beaten and shot to death.”

The diary is like a nightmare. Can we solve this deep-rooted problem by only issuing a few new laws? I really do not think so. Violence against women is not unique to Turkey; women in all parts of the world suffer from domestic violence in all different forms. However, each country has its own unique factors contributing to this epidemic. It is high time for Turkey to look deep into this problem and try to see all of its facets. We really need to have a comprehensive questioning to this end.

COMMENTS
I always said and will say it again: Educate women and you will find out her potensial, we will find out what she can do. The sky is the limit. The reports as this,will stop for good.
Educate her
I see on TV abuse of women in Turkey,also read articles too like this one.I dont unerstand Turkish,but some TV series translated to Arabic which I understand,being a grandson of Armenian genocide survivors,I grew up in middle east.I like to watch these so called macho men who beat the women.women al...
Garo Avedis
@friend of Turks, my friend, we all know this kind of crimes are too less among ethnic Turks. Most of crimes in Turkey are comitted by non-Turks.
necati
@necati My friend, we should take care of the many problems of Turkish women and Turkish society first because Turkey is OUR responsibility. Only Turks can fix beloved Turkey. Once our own house is in order, then we extend our efforts to all our fellow Muslims and human beings. Allah will hold Turks...
Friend of Turks
necati, seriously and I will ask this very politely. Do you suffer from kind of psychological disorders? Are you bipolar or a psychopath? The subject was about "abuse of women in Turkey," but, for some ridiculous reason, you start ranting your racist and shameful for all. If one day, you start talki...
Mine Ozcelik Bagrationi
Violence against women is omnipresent-manifested in an extremely brutal way in the east and in a more insidious and invisible way in the west. Eradication or at least reduction of violence presupposes democratization of education and change of its content[elimination of militaristic values, which ...
anastasia
MR OKC_Yan, you want to know how innocent women and little babies were massacred mercilessly by Armenians ? here: mfa.gov.az/eng/images/stories/jurnal/xojaly.pdf ..do you think they did not deserve to live ?
necati
I think NECATi, General Sherman et al are not psykhapats or mentally ill persons. Instead they are hired by Azery leaders to sabotage any sort of articles, regardless of their subjects, with their anti-Armenian vomiting. The only blame goes to Zaman's administration for allowing this to happen.
Reeder
mineyan Hanım, You are a lady.you know We Turks respect women unlike Armenians/Kurds. So, i will not talk to you because i dont want you to get sad.
necati
@friends of Turks, i talk of armenian women who are in much worse conditions because they are also humans created by God like us. so deserve to be cared. dont you think so ? if we dont care them , who will ?
necati
necati has been invited to Artsakh by me but is frightened to come
VTiger
@necati Why do you talk of Armenia? Are a Turk or an Armenian? Don't you care about what is happening to Turkish women? Don't you want to fix our problems in Turkey? Move to Armenia if you want to fix their problems, but if you live in Turkey, then work hard to make us better.
Friend of Turks
Allah WILL hold us accountable for our deeds. If we ignore the violence against women that occurs daily in our country, then Allah WILL bring us to account. Muslims, fear Allah and implement policies and measure to stop women abuse. Where is the police?? What are the courts doing?? Are the murderers...
Friend of Turks
Necati, if you had a brain in your ignorant head you wouldn't be turning this viewpoint on violence against women into a cheap shot against Armenia. Once again you demonstrate to the forum you're an idiot.
Christoph
necati, a Giant thank you for your compassion. Much obliged.
Preston Bagrationi
The situation in both Turkey and Armenia is very serious. Nacati might want to give donations to women's charities in both countries. I think that it has been accepted that the abuse of women in Turkey is not cleaning the male honour but making them seem creepy. I look forward Mr Cengis turn his ski...
Abuse of children must be discussed too
It is sad that women have to pay the ultimate price (death), and this, unfortunately happens mostly in our neck of the woods, which includes both Muslim and Christian countries. Is it religion, culture, or lack of common sense and respect for women. I believe that educating men should start at home....
Mine Ozcelik Bagrationi
necati, Turks, unlike Azeris are Not racists. So STOP your hooliganism, and don't you ever talk for the Turkish nation or people. Keep your racist rants in Baku. Most of us are tolerant and accepting. You stay with your uncle Aliyev, and maybe he will buy you a villa in Dubai. No one is taking you s...
Mine Ozcelik Bagrationi
necati, the article was about our Turkey, and Not your Azerbaijan or Armenia. So, stop and learn reading the article and other meaningful posts. You keep blabbering nonsense...Everyday. Mr. OKJ was talking about my country, and Not about your Azerbaijan or Armenia. Do you suffer from psychological d...
Mine Ozcelik Bagrationi
Dina, The matter in Armenia is more severe than it is in Turkey. You know we ruled them more than 1000 years.so i feel compassion for them. that is why i mentioned about them.
necati
This article is about a serious matter affecting our country. What does it have to do with women in Armenia Mr. Necati? Can someone flter out irrelevant comments or maybe it is better to allow this clown to make a fool out of himself in public.
Dina
If only there were more men like you speaking out LOUDLY on this issue! Women are treated as second-class citizens here, unless they are related to someone important, well off, or well educated. A frightening number of girls are not sent to school, or do not proceed pass elementary grades, are force...
cam
"National surveys suggest that more than a quarter of women in Armenia have faced physical violence at the hands of husbands or other family members. Many of these women have little choice but to remain in abusive situations as reporting violence is strongly stigmatized in Armenian society." i thin...
necati
You can pass all the laws you want unless someone is enforcing them then it is moot. Also, since Turks are so concerned with their "honor" and any "disrespect" maybe these offenders should have a tattoo placed on their forehead to identify them for life to the general public. Backward mentality is...
Me
Mr. OKC-yan , what is the ethnicities of these criminals ? Violence can be a part of culture ?
necati
There is an old folk saying in Armenia, “A woman is like wool, the more you beat her, the softer she will be.” ...Ha ha ha.. mineyan , watch out.. www. unitedhumanrights.org/2010/05/ domestic-violence-against-women-in-armenia
necati
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